Yes, ANOTHER stupid relationship problem!

[ThreeEyedGod]

I'll put whipped cream on them puppies.

[Sans Agendum]

Well let's look at the information we have before us.

You are in a relationship. You just had your 3rd year anniversary and now you are complaining instead of being happy about it. Something tells me you are pretty confident that your boyfriend isn't going to see this thread. You stated your side of the story and we will probably never see the other side of the story. I can only imagine that it goes like most though. Guy has to work his ass off to keep the attention of the girl he likes every other day of the year and probably feels just a tinge of resentment about the life being drained from him by the time anniversary day comes around that maybe he doesn't feel so much like celebrating.

You get the answer to your question from MMT, which leads you to boast about your titties, which you did absolutely nothing to get by the way. Then after that you reward Pope with 'KFC' for affirming and catering to your 'Blame the guy' mentality.

I'm sorry, but typical self absorbed materialistic female is TOTES being materialistic and self absorbed. I bet if your boyfriend saw this thread his reaction would have you begging him to accept your apologies for being such an ungrateful snob of self entitlement. Stop expecting so much from him. You're apparently so damn glorious that you can get whatever because a complete stranger asked to see your fat mammaries on the internet.

Hope that helps.

[Christina]

Well let's look at the information we have before us.

Yes, let's.

You are in a relationship.

Yes.

You just had your 3rd year anniversary

Yes.

and now you are complaining instead of being happy about it. Something tells me you are pretty confident that your boyfriend isn't going to see this thread. You stated your side of the story and we will probably never see the other side of the story. I can only imagine that it goes like most though.

No. This was not me complaining by ANY means, but more or less me expressing a slight disappointment for his lack of interest in that particular day. I'm thrilled that we have reached our 3 year mark and I don't think my coming to "friends" here for advice even remotely indicates that that is all there is to my feelings on the matter just because I haven't put it ALL on a forum. This was just a small fraction of it. And that small fraction happens to be the only negative aspect of it.
And no, you won't see his side of the "story" because he is not a Marilyn Manson fan therefore really has no reason to be a member here. But he's well aware of my constant communicating here.

Guy has to work his ass off to keep the attention of the girl he likes every other day of the year and probably feels just a tinge of resentment about the life being drained from him by the time anniversary day comes around that maybe he doesn't feel so much like celebrating.

I can assure you that Arthur does not work to keep me happy but instead to HELP support the life he helped create. Him holding a job has NOTHING to do with me. If I want something, he does not buy it, I DO!

You get the answer to your question from MMT, which leads you to boast about your titties, which you did absolutely nothing to get by the way. Then after that you reward Pope with 'KFC' for affirming and catering to your 'Blame the guy' mentality.

I'm sorry you feel my breasts are unappreciated by me, but THOSE conversations were jokes... inside jokes at that Not all posts on here, even in serious subjects, are gonna be taken with a heavy heart and I too like to play around as well.

I'm sorry, but typical self absorbed materialistic female is TOTES being materialistic and self absorbed.

... You sound bitter. Wanna talk about it?

I bet if your boyfriend saw this thread his reaction would have you begging him to accept your apologies for being such an ungrateful snob of self entitlement.

No. Like most things, he would probably take it with a grain of salt.

Stop expecting so much from him.

I STILL don't see a problem with asking for my boyfriend to acknowledge one day out the year and put his all into it. No flowers? Whatever. No card? No big deal. But why is it too much to ask for just alittle bit more on one day of the year... OUR DAY?!

You're apparently so damn glorious that you can get whatever because a complete stranger asked to see your fat mammaries on the internet.

Who the fuck asked to see them?? I don't recall anyone here asking to see them, so what's your anger all about?

Hope that helps.

No. No it didn't. Contrary to your assumptions about me because of ONE fucking thread, I am not a spoiled brat. I'm a dedicated mother, lover and house-"wife". It isn't that rare to find a woman that asks for a special day to be considered "special" by that one they love.

[petticoat]

I remind my man with enthusiastic and cheery (and just a bit sarcastic), "Only 15 more shopping days until *insert whatever birthday/anniversary is "important" here*" Sometimes he responds with a gift, other times he doesn't. But, because he frequently gets me gifts for absolutely no reason other than he is fabulous, it's easy to overlook the fact that dates on calendars get overlooked. He's an artist and it's part of who he is to forget what year it is. Whatever. I guess maybe it would help to look at whether he is satisfying you in other ways and if it's enough for you. Also, beware buying/making/presenting a gift to someone with hope of getting something in return...it sort of poisons the act of giving. Good luck to you, relationships are tricky sometimes :)

[Barbarella]

A picture of John Wayne Bobbit taped to my fridge is enough to ensure my man doesn't suffer from memory lapse.

So far it's working.

[Pasco]

Anniversaries don't matter. Does he make you feel happy in your day-to-day lives? That's what matters.

I think this is one of those typical "guys are guys and girls are girls"-issues. Anyway, if you really feel it is a big deal to you, tell him that you are hurt and expected more. He will probably change for your next anniversary. I did.

[Christina]

Actually, we're on the verge of a break-up... again. When it all boils down, we are just NOT compatible.

Things haven't changed from the last time I posted about our break up and it never will. I'm sad about it, I feel like I have been cheated out of a family of my own because he isn't ready to settle down, but you can't force people to be a certain way.

So I suppose this thread is irrelevant now. But thanks everyone. I'll take it all into consideration if I ever date again.

[MisanthroPope]

I'll take it all into consideration if I ever date again.

Oh, boo hoo. You'll date again! With a clear love of chicken, you're a catch, to be sure.

[Sans Agendum]

..thanks everyone. I'll take it all into consideration if I ever date again.

Yor Welcome. ^___,___^

[AssetReign]

I, for one, appreciate the irony of a "Relationship Advice" thread on a Manson site.